Get Help From Friends and Family
Never underestimate the power that talking to friends and family members may have on you. Especially if you find yourself obsessing about him and you are not sure how to deal with it. They are usually the ones who will take the time out to sit and listen and empathize with you. Good friends and family will keep you in check and they are the ones who usually advise you where to draw the line between how to want to see him and how he really is.
A night out or just a day where you can spend some time with your friends is a good way to help work on getting over your obsession. Just knowing that they are there for you and will listen and offer encouraging words to keep you on your feet will work wonders.
